Monday, May 29, 2017

You know life is good when....

Joe calls and asks what's new and the only thing we can think of is that there's a robin made her nest in the hanging flower pot on the back porch.  Maybe not so good for the robin, as the cat has been perched under the flower for a few hours each day, trying to figure out how to get up there.  But we keep chasing the cat away.

Memorial Day.  I remember Pop's weekly letters including the Memorial Day parade in Pomfret, sometimes his marching.  Here's one from 1995:  "Memorial Day.  And in Pomfret, it's a bigger day than any other. Half the town marches, and the other half watches. There are Lions (the sponsors), Girl Scouts, Brownies, Boys Scouts, Little Leaguers, Fire Engines, Ambulances, Horses, Sheep, National Guard, an Air Guard fly-over, etc. And the inevitable recitation of the Gettysburg Address by Howard Baker, now in his '90's, and afterwards, many people will say, this may be Howard's last year... and we have been hearing that since we moved here."

Did anyone go to a Memorial Day parade?  Sheepishly,no, I admit, but next year I will do better. 

Joe and Lenor were on their way to the Eastern Shore for a week of vacation, baby-moon, they are calling it.  Leonor is well, albeit uncomfortable.  They had just gotten back from a wedding in Minnesota.  Margaret was here, for half the day anyway.  She had come up for her 10th college reunion (10 years?) and then spent Sunday here before heading back to Hartford to catch a plane.  Andrew stayed home with the pets, but mostly to do school work.  At this moment she should be flying the friendly skies.  Annie found those skies are often unfriendly, as she had one of the experiences with cancelled flights, layovers, and arguments before finally arriving in Paris a day late for the wedding of a Hamilton friend.  But she made it, and will spend a few days this week in the city of lights on vacation.  

We saw on Facebook that a)  Billy and Jen went camping with their children.  I wonder if I should rustle up a few Dickson camping photos, from the 1950s.  Their posts looked great, but they admitted to exhaustion.  Kids love camping.  b) that Jeffrey had some help in completing his raised bed gardening project. ​c) that Donald has a little tykes car that is the same as the one Joe got in 1982.  I wonder what other auto company could survive with the same style from 1982.

We do have news from here:  Mary did her usual record-setting times in a swim meet last weekend, especially as she had never swum the backstroke in a meet.  I went to a stone-wall workshop at Arrowhead, with a group of teenagers and a ranger who worked at the Weir Farm National Park, in Wilton Conn.  Another small world.  And, we've been gardening, getting the flower beds and vegetables in.  In fact, we've even had some asparagus, our first year from the garden.  As soon as I finish this, I'm heading out to put the rest of veggies in the ground.

But before that, we can also report that David and Paul have put their flower beds in order, with a new dagwood tree and their own hanging baskets gracing their porch.  And Johnny reports progress in his recovery from surgery on his neck.

Reading recommendations: Underground Railroad (although I think I'm the last one on the planet to have read that) and Man of Good Hope, which Mary was riveted to for a couple of weeks.  Film recommendation - Finding Oscar, which featured a few people who I knew in Mexico.  And finally, how many of you have done this: order a movie from Netflix that you've already seen?  Our Kind of Traitor, we watched with Margaret last night, but could only vaguely remember.  Embarrassing.

With that, out to the garden.  Love from up here.  





 





Sunday, May 14, 2017

Happy Mothers' Day

Happy Birthday to Sean, happy birthday to Elliot, and Happy Mothers' Day to all the mothers.  In honor of this big day, there was a wonderful New York Times article about the life of mothers before they became mothers, prompted by a photo.  So, the photos for this letter are of Georganna and Loretta, before they became wives and mothers.  It doesn't end there.  Last night, we went to an intellectual movie of sorts, Snatched, with Amy Shumer and Goldie Hawn where a photo of the mother before she became a mother featured prominently.  A very funny movie, at least the first part which sent me into an asthma attack I was laughing so hard. Happy Mothers Day, again.

How did you spend your mothers day?  We went to brunch, to the nursery, to the garden, to the bed for a nap, and to our easy chairs for reading and for telephone calls.  Tonight, steak on the grill and chocolate ice cream.  Perfect.

Last weekend, I went down to Lawrenceville for my 45th high school reunion.  I remember going to my first reunion, but not since then.  So, it was a little strange to see people I had not seen since 1972.  There was one guy who not only went to Lawrenceville but also Drake Road Elementary in Cincinnati.  There were a few who had gone to Princeton, and who I had seen in the intervening years as well.  Other impressions?  People were for the most part in good health, and keeping fit. I think it was seeing David at his 50th reunion at Darrow last year that inspired me to return.

I stayed with Peter and Janet and had a chance to catch up with them as Peter related his recent court case, Sean's first trial, and all the books Johanna gets as part of her job publicizing books.  Johanna was there as well, and you'll have to ask her about the choice e-mails she's been getting related to Bill O'Reilly, an author her company publishes.  Janet and Peter went out to a McCarter gala that featured Wynton Marsalis.  Very special.

David and Paula spent a couple of days in New York City this week, where David had meetings, but more importantly, they went to see Hello Dolly with Bette Midler.  Fun.  Not so much fun was the news from Florida where Johnny had surgery on his neck to clear an artery.  A successful surgery but an uncomfortable recovery.  He says the incision went from his ear to his collar bone.  

More congratulations are in order for Claire who graduated last weekend from Hope College.  She won an award for music performance.  Andrew, Lur and Daniel went out for the weekend, and it took two cars to haul her stuff home.  Andrew is still struggling with his back issues.

More news - Joe went to Switzerland last week for work, and Leonor went to Canada, I think.  They have started childbirth classes.  We spoke with Annie after her week in San Francisco, and she sounded tired.  Last weekend Margaret and Andrew joined Jeff and Melodie for a tour of wine country in Virginia.

A quiet few weeks for us, staying home and catching up.  I'm taking two classes through the life long learning institute on Shakespeare tragedies and fly fishing.  Mary did double duty teaching swimming two nights a week in April, and she has been spending time with her Aunt Mary who is recovering from a couple of falls.

It looks like spring and maybe even summer may be returning this week.  I've had to mow the lawn a few times, and we're working on the flower beds and vegetable garden.  Ahh summer.

Hope you all are well and enjoying the season and the day.  Love from up here.