Friday, October 30, 2015

California dreaming and.....

(almost) all the leaves are brown.... and we turn back the clocks this weekend.  An extra hour of sleep will only slightly soften the blow that we are headed into the season of mittens and boots every time we venture outside.  

Time has really stopped for Matthew and Tina.  Through Facebook and phone calls, we have been able to keep up with the ordeal of Matthew's spinal infection that sent him to the hospital for emergency surgery and now a long re-hab.  The postings tell a story of interrupted lives, of small signs for hope and of a wonderful network of friends and family.  David and Paula have spent long hours over at the hospital, keeping him company and even bearing gifts for the nurses taking care of Matthew.  Jeffrey is up there this weekend, and it sounds like he pulled diaper duty for Donald.  It sounds as if there have been a number of complications for Matthew, but we are grateful every time we read a post from him, since we read he's sitting up, and well enough to type.  We especially liked hearing of his "enthusiastic" physical therapy team, and the goal to move to a chair.  We're all pulling for you Matthew.   

In between phone calls with David, we headed to Washington for the weekend, staying with Annie in her new apartment in Queens on the way down.  More spacious and a great neighborhood.  She is contemplating having to move by the end of the year, though.  Then, we headed to lunch in Lawrenceville with Peter, who told us that Janet's brother broke his leg while on a trip to India.  The flight back in a cast must have been excruciating.  Peter later informed us that Sean passed the bar exam.  Congratulations Sean!

In Washington, we stayed at Joe's new house, and he and Leonor have been busy making it a home.  It's on a surprisingly quiet street, for a house in the city.  Leonor cooked us a Portuguese dish for supper one night (wonderful!), and then Mary and I went to our friends, Gerry and Dennis, for Indian food.  The next night we had Eritrean food at Margaret and Andrew's.  Lest you think we need a visa for all our meals, we did go to a bar for hot dogs and wings to watch the Patriots win.  That never gets old, especially against the Jets.  

My summer of work ended this week, with my last days at Hancock Shaker Village. It was a long seven months, more than I wanted in my retirement, but the opportunity to learn so much was in the end worth it.  And now my next project starts, a photo book on industry in the Berkshires.  But I think I will be able to get some naps in while doing that.

We spoke with Andrew a few times, and learned that Lur is also busy, with all her volunteering activities, at the hospital and for a group of Dundee boosters.  We hear as well that Billy is going to be setting up his own company - go Billy and happy birthday, belated.  I also think I jumped the date last week on Daniel's college tour by a few weeks.      

Our trip to Washington coincided with a memorial service for a colleague who I worked with in Peru, the man who went on Jeopardy while we were there and won five consecutive games earning two Corvettes and a boatload of cash.  Chris was a real character, and his daughter, in her remarks, talked of his Friday the 13th phobia, and how he used to send postcards every month saying that "this month Friday the 13th falls on a Tuesday."  A little joy on a very sad day.  Next month, by the way, Friday the 13th actually falls on Friday.

So, it's a little hard to write about this other news when we are preoccupied with Matthew's recovery.  So we'll close with a major league, world series "You gotta Believe" for Matthew.

Love from over here.  


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Monday, October 12, 2015

10 best

Pop's weekly letters had a regular feature, beyond stories of Spag's and haircuts and the dump.  He would regularly mention that they were enjoying one of the 10 best days of the year.  I am not sure how he kept track, if he marked them on the calendar or not, or if had a criteria-based system giving points for weather (temperature, sun, foliage colors, breeze, humidity, sunrise and sunset, dewpoints) or for activities or get-togethers with family and friends or lottery jackpots.  I suspect it was a decision of the gut.

What made me think of this is we are coming off of three of the ten best days here, and my criteria is mostly weather based, but also foliage.  We are at the very peak of the season, a little late due to warm weather.  The colors are tremendous, and seem to surpass last year.  I suspect the same was true for everyone here, from Chicago to DC from Rochester to NYC.  (Do I sound like the Shirelles singing "Dancing in the Streets"?)  How about Florida?  Hope your long weekend was spectacular.    

Last letter mentioned all the birthdays, except for Janet's (today) or Auden, who turned two and whose picture is included here.  Who do you think liked her birthday more?  I think it was equal.

It was a big weekend up here too, that included the world premiere of the movie I have been working on.  Unfortunately, when we turned it on Saturday night to watch, the tv station messed up something and the quality made viewing impossible.  They have since fixed it, but with the nice write-up in the Berkshire Eagle, anyone trying to watch probably got discouraged.  Not us though, we had a dvd and watched it with a group of friends here.  I will try to upload it on to YouTube so you all can sit through the 84 minutes and see what the all the commotion is about.  Not really, but it was a long haul and I'm glad it's finished.

Other activities from my stupid crazy summer are coming to close as well.  Today was my last day at Arrowhead and this week I will finish with the last of the Fulbright applications as the deadline is tomorrow.

It looks like others have been busy as well.  Johanna was off in Paris, and from her postings it sounded like she was staying at the Ritz with all the famous people she was running into.  Nous aussi aimons Paris.  John and Marilyn were off to a different French city, New Orleans and posted photos of cafe and beignets.  Nour aussi aimons les beignets.  We heard that Andrew and Daniel were off to Michigan this weekend to look at colleges.  Margaret and Andrew had a non-French weekend up in Lancaster, and Joe welcomed back Leonore who had stayed on in Portugal for a few weeks with her family and friends after their trip in September.

The garden is producing only a little, but we have yet to dig up the potatoes.  The last of the cherry tomatoes are coming in, and we have pulled up other veggies and many weeds, getting ready for next spring.  

Lots of baseball watching around here, and some great series.  We are here rooting for the Royals and Blue Jays, Mets and Cubs.  Not sure, though, who Mary is rooting for.  Michael Phelps, I believe.

Here's to a happy, full and enjoyable fall.  Love from up here.